Emotional atyachaar

I’ve always been lucky to have great friends and good personal relationships all my life. Thanks to all those who’ve put up with my mood swings, tantrums, emotionsz... I ponder as to Wut these emotions actually are??

We often hear people saying “Don’t Give Them Emotional Control Over You”. Some people are under the assumption that your emotions come from your thoughts. That would be wrong. It is a bit more involved than that. It’s not just what we think about or put our attention on that determines our emotions. Contrary to some current self-help philosophy, your emotions don’t come just from your thoughts. Ever listen to a comedian tell a tragic story in a funny way? Comedians can talk about their relationship breakups, economic collapse, and war, in a way that makes us laugh about it. They get us to think about tragedies and laugh with joyful emotions about them. There is obviously something more than thoughts or subject matter to creating emotions. Something in their point of view affects the emotions we create.

I’d begin with the obvious that people often overlook. You create your emotions. I say this is overlooked because people often say or think things like, “He makes me angry,” “That is sad,” or “He makes me cry.” Listen to this type of talk, and it sounds like other people and circumstances are creating your emotions. There is no mention of you being responsible for any part of the process. Believing these kinds of thoughts or comments causes us to overlook our role in creating emotions.
If someone is angry and scolds us we might feel fear or guilt. Fear and guilt are our reactions to them and their expression of anger. If they were making us feel emotions, we’d feel their anger. We don’t. We feel the emotions we create as a reaction to them. For the most part we generate our emotions, and then we feel them. There are emotions that we can feel that are not created by us, but this is a small percentage and best dealt with later. If you intend to change your emotional state, emotional reactions, and develop more happiness in your life, you will have to develop skills in changing point of view and recovering your faith from your false beliefs.

(I know what must be running through your mind after reading this….. yep!!… “Look whoz talking” ain’t it?? Like all of us know it is easier said than done ;) n eh wuz wrong in saying :))

RAINBOW MAGIC

I know that, this isn’t a gripe log where you blow off steam or a martyr book in which you write down all the reasons you’re going to heaven for being a saint :)...bt cunt help it

In ma initials days at Luck’ NO, It sounded like everyone was doing so many great things, and it was awesome to see! For some reason I was facing some slight slowdowns and discouragement, but I knew that everyone was pushing to make things happen. It was with great amount of disappointment and a greater sense to act that I left Hyderabad. I had some very intense and exhausting days during Hoax @ college. It was hard not to be a pessimist about my future. I felt that I was well on the road to disaster.
One day I get a frenz request on gtalk and I did accept it coz the ID had something to do with IIML.In a couple of days the person-Globe asks me to join his team. (Thought hez talkin some crap!! Coz it didn’t make much sense to me).I was beginning to feel as if i had some loose ends. He did talk about his team winning last year….blah blah…I was excited, yet the tiniest bit of my heart had some issues with it.
Then we did meet up for the first time during the insti party followed the induction party @Mint. This is where i happened to meet the entire team. It was a decent party; don’t claim it to be a great one coz topics discussed made me sound like a broken record. Still managed to get along well with the crowd.
It is that evening when BB(named so for convenience) added me on his gtalk n v did chat for a while....(jus the whereabouts.....din’t even expect to talk much tho).Before i could realise,Very soon we started talking as he did give good summary of the issues on campus and offered a few suggestions about how to deal with it. Sometimes it takes a bit more than what is expected to make a change. And yes both Globe and BB had it all to make the change.
They made me realize that a B-school student who doesn’t find the work stressful is a rare bird. I was reluctant to listen to any of the gyaan they gave. This shouldn’t be hard, but a lot of people find it so. And i was one such; maybe it’s just human nature. If you don’t know the answer to a question, it’s sometimes easy to forget that other people do know.
'A friend in need, is a friend indeed' is a popular saying, implying that people become friends when they need something from you. Whilst this can indeed be true, the reverse is also significant. When you are in need, then you find out who are your real friends. They became moi true,real and goodie goodie friends .There was no looking back from then and we had real good times, fun-filled talks, walks, Globu’s globe, BB’s stories.....amazing.... We became the 3 musketeers.
Before we could even think of it, an year passed by (read academic year:)) n the time has come for them to leave. Thought we were on the high road but no doubt there will be more twists and turns. That was the only day that BB got chockis 4 me (jus cunt stop capturing the pic).... Globu like always globed to his glory and then in a while they drove out of my sight.:(

Is it over??

Before i start this is just somthing i'm writing about how i feel on something that just happened. Don't be nosey by asking why. If you're gonna critize, then don't...

I was sitting there a li’l while ago listening to our fuss, fight and explanation. Farewell night was supposed to be a no-miss thingie, but we ruined it acting like fools. The night seemed so calm before it came to past. The fresh feel of freedom throughout the air.Now the air seeps into my body like poison. If I didn't have to i wouldn't breathe.Who was right, who was wrong? Guess! it doesn't really matter. Because the way the game was played, everyone was gonna lose :(. The mood is cold, regretful and selfish. Silence is all to be heard. For now it has stop, leaving us feeling like tattered rag-dolls, but that doesn't mean it's over??

Black , White n shades of grey

Was talking to a friend of mine a li’l while ago and he is crying his heart out as his GF dumped him (he claims it to be so ;) ) . He kept on saying that gals are b*****s
Huh!!

Why do women who have good men...cheat on them....and women who have bad men...usually more often than not...stay with them? People have been asking this age old question...well, for ages! The problem is much more complex that we could ever imagine.

From Clues to Uncover a Cheater’s Heart, Everybody Cheats or is it just women? Just as many men betray as women, but they don’t get caught notes more. "Men are much better liars and they have a plan. They’re just much more crafti ;).This is an honest opinion n trust me I ain’t being prejudice.

U a WEIRDO??

Do you often catch yourself not laughing at something the rest of your group finds funny? Are you not able to conjure up laughter from friends and colleagues at the workplace, college, school etc? There could be something wrong with your sense of humor. It's too early to conclude, but your friends might be finding that being with you is a bore. If you think this applies to you, then you must do something about it now, before people start avoiding you at the lunch pantry or making up excuses not to sit with you on the booze table.

Humor is one’s capacity to bring about feelings of merriment in other people. It is a well-entrenched aspect of entertainment and communication and is very normal to everyday life. A person with a great sense of humor can laugh by himself and elicit laughter from other people by using, among others, one’s experience, everyday situations, and funny devices as objects.

A person exhibiting a great sense of humor is usually a fun person to be with. Sharing funny jokes and lifting the mood in any gathering serve as trademarks of those with fantastic jest meters. This is why more people prefer to be in their company. Anybody who welcomes the break from boredom and who craves for respite from the daily hustle and bustle of life will do well to nurture a great sense of humor.

While a sense of humor can provide an aura of fellowship and sociability most of the time, it can, however, displace some people, particularly the sensitive ones, when not properly presented or manifested.

Feeling Tickled!!

A little over 4 years ago, I had no idea what size zero was, and I certainly didn’t know size/shape/figure will become such a big phenomenon.
Well! thought aerobics was a perfect antidote to extra carbs, energetic, colorful, and the little bit of glam you need to brighten up your day without hurting your wallet! But the glam didn’t last longer as I had 2 travel to LUCK’NO (read Lucknow ). I didn’t really know where I was heading to as I have put on 6kgs in 6months which is horrifying.
Before it gets too late that I realize what it takes to shed those extra kilos, I’ve tried my luck in cycling, baddy n a li’l of tennis , hoping that something would finally work out for me.
Believe it or not it is running @ the ULTRA Oval track ;) that helped. Starting a regular running habit could mean a longer — and more comfortable. It been close to a week and I already feel tickled and lite :P (I ain’t trying to show off :) )

GUYS! PRETTY SWEET, HUH?

Like many gals, I get along better with dudes than I do with girls/chicks/babes/broads/dolls. This is because dudes are chill. Don't get me wrong- dudes are mad flawed, and I often hate them, but they generally shun cattiness, dramz, resentment, competition, and other such negativity (which rules). I have observed many a bromance in my time, and they're always so sweet!

BUT....
Very recently did I realize that all the Guys aren’t sweet. At times they are the cause of pain ,anger frustration n....

MULTI COLORED TUNIC TOP

In real life, I probably wouldn't wear this as a mini -dress (as shown in the photo) , since it's so short that it would give the world way too many unwanted peeks at the crotch of my stockings. I am presently unsure as to how this piece can be utilized to its Full Coolness Potential, though I know it'll do just fine paired with the tried, tested & true combo of skinny jeans and ballet flats come beautiful, beautiful summertime.

Go Crazyyyy

One very gross Monday afternoon a couple days ago, I spent an entire ride to the mall with my hood pulled way far down over my head. Ohhhh I did something totally insane and spent money on a brown dress that looks like this



Well!! It is insane for two reasons 1) i’v decided not to shop but still ended up shopping 2) this would be my 4th dress in brown
But still, I just want to wear this and go around in bare feet. Yes, I want summers. I'm all ready for it

IMAGINARY V'DAY

Last week, I made up imaginary outfits for imaginary dates with imaginary dudes. Because I am alone during V-Day Week and want to delude myself into feeling better .Since this task was such an exercise in self-indulgence to begin with, I decided to pull out all the stops and make my dream date outfits out of crazy-expensive shit….
Flower Bouquets, Teddies, Godiva, CHANEL …. Dint turn me on, coz there was something missing in the air.
Let's try not to think too hard about the fact that, instead of going out on hot dates, I sit around and watch movies on my laptop. Am I a loser? Don think so :)